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Action plan for  your relationship gets you towards happiness

Action planning limits number of open doors. (photo credit: / nattavut)

“Vision without action is nothing, action without vision is disaster.” -Unknown

[In quote: Replace vision with purpose to modernize it.]

To achieve the future framed in the purpose statement of the company, business needs to have a strategy. The action plan of the businesses, strategy is only a cooler way to call it, is defined in plenty of different ways. In its simplest form strategy is a choice what to do and what not to do.

In large corporations strategy is often misunderstood. CEOs describe the targeted future by numbers. “We want to grow 10 per cent per year and have 75 000 employees by year 2020.” That’s not strategy.

Similar statement about strategy from a 18-year-old young woman would be a desire to have three children. How do you get those three children? What are the key steps in between to be able to support and take care of the dream family?

Poor strategists get disposed of

Good example of a poorly articulated corporate strategy I can find very close to me. Recently I was reading a new number of a staff magazine of my employer. The main story of the magazine was covering the launch of new company strategy, carrying a slogan “Now we execute!”.

The strategy was aiming toward 12 % annual growth resulting in the ultimate goal of close to exponential growth in the number of personnel and revenue. The immediate question from me was: “Okay, mister Group President, what would you like me to execute?”. No decisions on what to do or what not to do had been made.

The very same awarded leader was let go about a year after publication of the strategy. Only thing of the strategy that was executed, was the owner of it.

Does your actions meet your key challenge?

In a recent and appraised strategy book, Good Strategy, Bad Strategy, Richard Rumelt defines strategy as a coherent set of actions to address the key challenge of the organisation. Please note the word action in plural and challenge in singular. Rumelt highlights the common misunderstanding about strategy: it’s easy to define strategy broadly.

Good excuse might be the goal of not limiting the different growth paths of the company. But broad and dull strategy is bad strategy. Members of the organisation have hard time finding direction and guidance for their decisions. Articulating a bad strategy is an easy mistake to be made. Articulating a coherent and clear strategy is painstakingly hard task.

Rumelt’s book truly helped me to crystallize the true challenge of the business unit I was in charge of. Before it was more or less unclear and undefined. According to several employees, we were having many great initiatives but often they could not see the the connection and destination.

In our business unit the greatest problem was to overcome the challenge of “managing all routes to market”. If that sounds dull, it was figured out by me, not by a consultant. And it took a great effort to make it explicit. When I compared this statement to the challenges of the two other business units, they were clearly very different.

After crystallizing our key challenge I pursued to adjust all our major actions to either solve or ease the challenge. When I got a authorization of hiring two new people and strong recommendation how to place new resources, I presented an opposing plan contradicting the plan of my boss’ boss. My plan applied to our key challenge but at the same time fulfilled the intention behind the new recruitments.

Action planning is not supposed to be easy

Challenges are plenty in relationships as in businesses. To get a functioning strategy and people behind it you need to make choice about which challenge to address. It means analyzing and summing things up. Neither businesses nor couples can solve many challenges at a time.

That’s where strategy meets the challenge. Only after you have your key challenge – in singular – figured out one can develop a strategy to meet all the sub-problems. At the same time you reach certain focus in your business or relationship. Naturally the challenges change over time and strategy has to be adjusted.

Strategy, focus and allocation of resources walk hand in hand. Clayton Christensen brings up the issue with time allocation in families. In his book How to measure your life Christensen pursues to reflect how you divide your time between your career and children. He points out that you don’t focus or prioritize – deploy your strategy – until one utilizes resources accordingly.

Important is to have correct metrics in place too. If you think by taking your son to a soccer training twice per week is focus, that’s fine. With family and work filling your days, remember to prioritize your time inside and outside of the workplace. Finally: To succeed with new initiatives at work, it’s critical to address attention verbally and by allocating resources. Metrics will guide the action towards the desired direction.

Our greatest challenge

At the moment the greatest challenge of our relationship is to figure out where to live. Fortunately we have an apartment. Unfortunately the challenge does not mean we would be wanting to move to a different apartment or city. That would be too easy.

We don’t know in which country we would build our relationship. Yes, I know it’s quite fundamental. We are two different nationalities and we have both been living and working in the home countries of both parties. We are in the process of finding a compromise where to live for long term. What do we need?

To succeed you need both: dreamer and doer

Business theory and practice proves us that both of the partners do not need to be the most active in formulation of the strategy. Some time ago I visited a mid sized company. From the entrance everybody coming to the building needed to take stairs up to the second floor.

On top of the stairs two corridors departed. One to the left and one to the right. To the left pointed an arrow with a text “Seers” and to the right a similar sign “Doers”. Level and quality of humor reveals the true nature of company culture and relationships.

In corporations strategies are often set in the top management and among board of directors. That’s  known as top-down model which is widely used because of its simplicity and swiftness.

Business theory also talks about down-top model. Its greatest benefit is the greater commitment of employees, when they are more involved in the strategy process. But has anyone seen a true down-top model in practice?

Personally I have only read about it in business books. Input from middle managers or directors is harvested in seminars and workshops. The bigger the organization is the further these people are from the front line. That’s where the strategy easily becomes middle-top conversation.

Due to their nature relationships fortunately do not have this shortcoming.

Simon Sinek highlights that most successful companies have had the visionary entrepreneur who has envisioned the idea and purpose of the company. Next to the “Seer” is always needed a “Doer” to realize the dream. In relationships one needs to understand his or her strongest part in the equation and not to forget contributing to the other one.

Usually, I’m not saying always, women tend to be the visionaries. Once I found myself observing my spouse scrolling listings of apartments for sale and soon finding her dream kitchen. Seeing her enthusiasm about the apartment I realized that I need to get to work to afford a place with an ultra modern kitchen like that.

Dreaming and doing – both of them are key to long-term prosperity.

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What is an MBA for?

What is an MBA for? What did you learn?

What is an MBA for? What did you learn?

“Good theory helps people to steer to good decisions – not just in business, but in life, too.” -Clayton M. Christensen

What are the degrees of bachelor and master of science business administration for? How about the MBA? Case studies and presentations, workbooks and journals, group assignments and lectures? All pursuing to provide most innovative and novel ideas for managing businesses and leading people.

What did you really learn?

In business school you read and write about marketing, accounting and finance, strategy and organizations, management and leadership. Business concepts come and go like outfits at Hennes&Mauritz. But the fittest of them survive.  Like the white dress shirt SWOT analysis will never go out of fashion. Please name another one – you got two seconds!

If you did your MBA at the university it’s easy to remember the parties – the networking part. It’s difficult to name many concepts you learned off the top of your head. Still, the business school definately taught you  the language of business, the way of thinking. Depending on the industry you currently work for the real life surely follows the academia severeal years behind. You might have easily left behind the learnings until they reach you in corporate life.

Basic concepts provide clear support for your work and career. As I have seen personally it is beneficial to rehearse the key learnings from the business school. Having real life business challenges at hands one has something concrete to relate to.

Putting the literature in the context of your business and organization and their challenges is usually most fruitful. Once you are hands on with the real life you begin to relate and reflect to the theories you have studied.

I drank more beer during my first four years in the work life

In business school it’s easy to be mistaken about the importance of the studies. In real life business all about relationships. To accomplish the business activities you are involved in, you are dependent on the relationships with the people. Whether they were your internal or external customers, subordinates, team members or superiors.

Businesses care about and nurture their relationships. Customer satisfaction surveys, CRM systems and ever-increasing account managers (a.k.a salesmen) are living proof of how companies seek transformation to be customer oriented.

In the process of writing my own theses, both bachelor and masters, I drifted into a topic of business relationships, partnerships and creating competitive advantage out of them. Very basic but still so complex.

While introducing myself to dozens, or maybe a hundred, of journals and articles I noticed that the theories talk not only about business relationships but they also apply to my private relationship as well.

It took me a while to make that connection. When I first started to swap the words in my mind, I was laughing. Instead of thinking about buyer and seller, company and customer or manufacturer and distributor, I thought about man and woman.

From business to relationship – rMBA

I was deeply buried in the business partnerships, but the thought experiment of replacing “business” with “relationship” took me forward. When this blog moves forward we will elaborate to the connection deeper.  Part of the purpose of the blog is to help a business professional to master private life as well as work life.

The blog intended to propel your life in both. Like an eMBA aims to bring further a career of experienced business manager, rMBA is a support function for anyone who believes in power of analytical thinking.

If you didn’t attend a business school, don’t worry. You might as well read the Personal MBA from Josh Kaufman. John has found several same books useful for a person without a formal degree who wants to learn more about business. Many entrepreneurs are self taught and have mastered commercial skills by trial and error. By taking action. That’s what you need to do in a relationship too. To learn about yourself and the significant other. Little theory usually helps to avoid common pitfalls and lets you reflect analytically.

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The purpose of the blog

Avoiding daily rush

Running around always rushed always late.

Three lofty goals

“An investment in knowledge pays the best interest.” -Benjamin Franklin

Relationship MBA pursues to bring together business and relationships in a way that creates true value innovation. If you came to find ideas how to improve your relationship, you will have at the same time an opportunity to meet up with the most recent and classic business matters too. We talk about efficiency improvement here!

The goal of this blog has several idealistic and practical grounds. First, the idea originated from my own need. Without a real framework to comprehend happenings a relationship,  I simply wanted to better understand the dynamics of the union of two people.

Second, shortly after I had stabilized my relationship and taken the first steps in my career, I found several shortcomings in my business knowledge. Obvious way to fill those holes was to find out the smartest authors and their top titles. In my personal development I concentrated on business literature. When you are hands on in work-life it’s easy to push behind the wisdom you have collected during your studies.

Natural human behaviour is to adopt the customs of the industry where your company operates and the culture and ways of doing business of the company you work for. Theories which are tools to analyze and simplify complexity of real life tend to fade to the backstage. Without refreshing your business knowledge your thinking might regress to a level where your business practices have a lack of healthy criticism.

Third, this blog is aimed at helping the busy businessmen and women to find the balance between work and relationship. In today’s hectic and stressful pace of work-life we tend to neglect the most valuable part in our lives. Family. By rehearsing the fundamentals of business theories one can make more sophisticated decisions and lead people with confidence. That will eventually release time for your life outside business.

By understanding dynamics of relationships, both business and private, one can avoid common pitfalls, maneuver efficiently in different kind of situations and enjoy private and work life as the relationships prosper.

Tackling everyday challenges

“Look at us running around always rushed always late, that’s what they call human race.” -Hollywood movie “The Switch” (2010)

Today couples and families where both grown-ups are pursuing challenging careers are more and more common. This phenomenon creates pressure on division of time of the families. Without a doubt common reason for argument is the question of how free-time, household work and childcare is divided in the family.

How the couple supports each other in the stressful challenges of two careers is fundamental for the well-being of the relationship. Work and life balance is one of the most tedious questions of modern career builders. This blog is aimed at helping busy families, to maneuver in the hurry of everyday life.

Catering humour and respect

Happy relationships require always a piece of laughter. So does a good blog. I was planning to write this blog in a humorous manner. Then – rather quickly – I understood the complexity of such task. With your mates it’s rather easy to chat and joke about business and women.

The serious discussions with your partner  about the state and future of your relationship often contain limited amount of humour. Every attempt to joke could be held against you. Making fun might be seen as an undesirable attitude considering the seriousness of the topic. The importance of relationships does not allow humour in all instances. Taking the challenge into account I hopefully manage to maintain enjoyable level of humour.

In this blog I refer to many authors and their groundbreaking work. My intention is not to undervalue their input for every business and businessman. Vice versa. Journals and literature that are referred to in this blog are masterpieces of business literature and academic research. I have read them all to educate and develop myself to be better in my job.

The complexity and extent of the topic, applying your MBA at home, is vast. The limited processing power of my brain makes it difficult to teach you to gain a level of professorship in all of the concepts presented later. After introducing yourself to the most influential authors and their ideas here the reader can dig a little bit deeper on his own to the topics that are personally most relevant.

Most of the great authors and books quoted in this blog are borrowing and combining theories and studies of many different areas of science. It’s nothing exceptional. To be quoted, referred and shared is the main driving force of science. Game theory is a very good example of a theory that is used in several fields of science, biology, economics and psychology.

As an example Amy Sutherland made a book about her experiences of training animals and how those skills can be used in marriage (What Shamu taught me about life, love and marriage, 2008). In this blog reader is going to meet a true hybrid theory too. I think that makes the most fun about it.


  • Great learnings usually come from the places and sources you least  expect.
  • Pursue to have a good laughter and don’t quit having fun.
  • Give respect to the people influencing your life and work. After intensive usage t at work, don’t forget it at home.
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